Missionary Shary Frahm – Serving in Cambodia

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We were discussing Khmer Christian music for devotions in the morning and on our third look we found this. Mind you this is not the norm here, but those so privileged to live in the city and be exposed to somethng as fine as this is amazing. Only a slight few outside the big cities even have electricity yet and we are still working on safe water and sanitary conditions. However, we were awed by the expressions of some of the students here who were obviously singing from deep inside, as well as the conductor who was very pleased how God was being told here. Amen.

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Traveling in the Kingdom Day 3-4 ~ A Trail Between the Bridges

Stroeng Treng is north and east of Phnom Penh. It touches borders with both Laos and Vietnam because of a spectacular juncture where the Mekong Falls are situated. Actually in this area we are told that there are over 4,000 islands out there terracing the landscape. Viewing leads me to believe that some of their presence to the viewer is relevant to the rainy versus non rainy season.

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In this area there is also the ability to see the Mekong Falls. While I’m not into waterfall dialogue a whole lot and I’ll leave this to George to elaborate on later if he wants, I will admit that it was a spectacular sight. For one, I can’t compare it to Niagara Falls. This area was a series of cascading drops and stair stepping water rock formations with an almost canyon event or two. The water in itself takes on a greenish hue and because of forever warmth, it has a certain odor with it, even though it looks clear.

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Until recently travel in this province meant using a ferry between areas as no bridges existed. Whew, we are happy to hear that there are two new bridges now that make daily commute for locals much safer. Poor maintenance on the local ferries had, of recent, caused a lot of worry using them, especially in the rainy season. The bridges are less than a year old and already the area is transitioning from the ferry areas to the bridge areas where people can sell their wares and foods.

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There is a Jarai village who live along the river and migrate back and forth. There are floating fishing communities in the distance and a wide prevalence of use of long tail boats. The province is lush green red soil. It’s miles and miles of driving from one area to another, or it seems so, dependent again on the roads.

Stroeng Treng will be the site of a Garuna School in the new year. As we visited it now and climb the hill at the road entrance, it is as yet just deforested land totally undeveloped. On the same road/area there will also be farm investments made, as well as a goal for a theological training center. Even at one stop at the base of the larger bridge we investigated some land that was on the river itself and under discussion as a retreat center.

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The other reason for our visit to this area was to celebrate Christmas with Pastor Vesak and his flock. We were humbly impressed with Pastor Vesak’s family who have so unselfishly incorporated their daily life into this church. Vesak’s wife during the week opens up her veranda and it has a restaurant position. She is a great local cook and her notoriety for such is well known. Her food is clean meaning we could enjoy it as well. While dishes were washed by hand in a large dish the water to do so was running clean. We did notice she had a fridge but the orange ice chest seemed to hold the foods that needed to be there.

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Church services that night meant the young folk had quick learning of a few songs prior to their performance. Gladly it can be said here that they made all their mishaps beforehand and glorified Him in their performance. The one downside was the flat tire that happened (and couldn’t be quickly repaired) that was to have brought another 120 to share time with. That being said, way to much food existed for the remaining folk, so lots of food went home with those present for the next day. The service held probably a tad less than 50 till the end and when darkness erupted around us, when meal fellowship began under a single lightbulb or two hanging above us.

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The next morning we continued to Ratanakiri and the Jarai village. What pleasant addition to all this is that Pastor Vesak, his family, and some others close by hopped into a pickup truck and rode shotgun all the way there. Again Pastor Vesak’s wife shined her culinary skills in managing the meals for everyone while we were there. Many women joined in to help in the prep process beforehand, cutting veggies and meat for over 120 people. This included the arrival of people from four other churches who came alongside to stand with the Jarai folk who are still so young in their faith. While some could not speak the Jarai language, the love of Jesus was everywhere.

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Out the Back Door

This was posted on my ELCC FB website back on January 6th. I had somehow neglected to also put it here, but because of a surprise last night I thought putting this out first was crucial for you all to realized how impacting our surprise last night was for us.

Most evenings we take a walk out the back of the commune, avoiding the gridlocked dust raised road that would normally take us out. More and more of the people who live here are extending greetings to us every time we venture that way. One time a passerby said (he was married to a khmer gal) said he’d never seen any foreigners in the area before and his wife had a business in the area. smile emoticon
IMG_4779Anyway, these ladies all hollered “hello” to us last night so we ventured toward them to talk, finding out that they were practicing ‘school’ with the gal in the orange on the right being the teacher. They all greeted us and told us their name. When I looked at the folder on the table I realized it was all in English and that she attended a school in the neighborhood called Milky Way School. Each girl had a reasonable level of English, but the 11 year old Koteia was very proficient at it already, indicating to us that this generation will march ahead much quicker than their counterparts in the villages where English is not so prevalent yet. She was beaming with her ability to talk with us so willingly. (and her english was very clear too.)

That is one reason the Garuna School project is so vital at this time with those children who aren’t in the big cities of Phnom Penh, Siem Reap, Battambang, and Sihanoukville. They don’t have the same playing field that these students are exposed to. To us that is important to raise up Christian leaders for this country thru these initiatives.

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Traveling in the Kingdom Day 2

This was originally written on December 7, 2015 and follows the first post of a while back by the same name. It is a continuance of the first post from December 6, 2015 actually.

Our arrival to the guest house was after 10pm last night. A short cut ended up being a long addition. Cambodian roads at night frighten me a bit. The only lights on the road are the ones off motorized vehicles. Motos are only visible head on. Animal laden carts meander down the road with whatever attached to them. Bicycles and people are a black moving object not visible till you are almost on them. It’s black out there.

A side jaunt west from our destination of Preah Vihear temple brought us outside Siem Reap to eat dinner with his Excellency. Pastor told me that I’d need my Khmer stomach henceforth and was it ready? Tonight’s meal was at an open roadside stop. We hung out with the rice and cooked sauces and bits of meat. No problem.

Our guest house is basic but very adequate. The loudest old fashioned TV had one BBC channel of 30 and spoke only in a whisper. There was an AC in working order, a gecko to sing to us on the wall, and a shower willing to give us a cold wash. This one had a top sheet on the bed, a first in a while.

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IMG_3711When you have certain representatives along for the day, I’m presuming that there is certain protocol to follow. A picture taking spot would be one of them, so this is what we did first. Beautiful lake found and photo shoot accomplished. From there cars caravanned a plethora of dirt roads to our final morning spot. Getting out of the car last, we followed the parade of those arrivals just ahead of us, into a two sided colIMG_3637umn of clapping smiling children into adult women and men in military dress extending their traditional hand clasped greeting. We were ushered to a lovely canopy area of red plastic chairs.

People scrambled to get a place to sit under the canopy. The children were ushered to the ground to sitIMG_3639on a plastic tarps. In the background we hear “How Great Thou Art” in Khmer followed by “Just As I Am.” Hey, a mini Billy Graham thing here.

The start begins with singing in front and is followed by a sequence of speeches by various persons, Vannarith included. Earlier in the day he also tells us that some of the men from this area will join with LISA training next month. That is great news.
IMG_3645IMG_3649One person in particular is pointed out to me. He is a lieutenant colonel in this military. He was the same in the Khmer Rouge army. Now he is a Christian. Thank you Jesus.

The last speaker is Sopheat, an energizing charismatic guy who is there to share the gospel message. No, I can’t understand much of his verbiage, but it’s clear to me that the earthly business details are done, and he is going to engage these people closer to God. As I walk around and watch, I can see the audience’s facial expressions change as he speaks.

IMG_3671Concluding this morning would not be complete without distribution of packets and crosses to the children and the Christmas story to each who was there. A gift to the area also included some well appreciated boxes of bibles and song books for Sunday worship.

‘Jesus loves you’ was spoken to each child as a cross and a packet were handed out with a paper version copy of the Christmas story.

God was praised today. God was also glorified. God was seen. God is good. We were humbled to be able to see it all and be a part of it.

PS: meal #2 Khmer style. We ate ‘in the bush’ with these lovely folk. Again, we stuck with rice noodles and sauce meat. It was delicious. No problem

 

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Eating at Home

Three Things you all always see at mealtime in a Khmer home.

Rice: lots of it piled high on your plate if your host / hostess has their way. If there is no rice at a meal, then it’s like they have never eaten their meal.WP_20151225_056

Soup: it won’t have another name to add specificity to the contents thereof. It could be clear, it could be cloudy. It will have leafy greens in it of some form (may be morning glory or something of that nature). Each of these will have a specific and pleasant taste of its own. 98% of the time you’ll see chunks of a ‘fish’ floating in it. Enough said.

Fish: Ponds, lakes, or farms give a plethora of fish. Fish can be dried, fried, boiled, porridge, or pasted. So many types of fish westerners would think of as trash fish or maybe an invasive species. Each variety has its own special appeal.

WP_20151225_054Long term being here and eating locally, one has to adjust and adapt out of respect to those sharing their food with you. It has always been good, just an adaptation of its own.

Rice has a good flavor here.

The photos below:

The fish is a small snakehead according to Mr. G.

The rice in the dish is a single serving if you desire.

The meal was eaten on the floor of a home on a mat with everyone in a circle. It was Christmas day and we were in Siem Reap. I guess you could say that this was our Christmas meal. It was very delicious. WP_20151225_057

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Traveling in the Kingdom in December

Let’s start traveling along the month of December way back on Sunday December 6th. I promised you, our readership and prayer warriors, that I would be stepping back into December when all the traveling started, to dig out my journaling during that month. This is the first one.

We appreciate your encouragement, your prayers, and your love sent this way. I can hardly comprehend the days of Jesus when he walked so many miles to share God’s love people just like us. It was probably hot and dirty. Yet he persevered.

Some days during that month we all had to pull up our hip boots and persevere. As an example in the middle of a road between point A and B the car would stop and drivers would change positions. Most often the driver who switched out didn’t sleep but the stress of such and the responsibility played heavy on everyone to stay the course. Once or twice we landed for a bit near a river, stream, or pond to be quiet and relish the cool breeze and fresh air.

Anyway, this is the first episode in the series of the month of those road days. Yup, they are still titled as before ~ Traveling in the kingdom.

Psalm 67

May God be gracious to us and bless us and make his face to shine upon us, Selah
2 that your way may be known on earth, your saving power among all nations.
3 Let the peoples praise you, O God; let all the peoples praise you!
4 Let the nations be glad and sing for joy, for you judge the peoples with equity and guide the nations upon earth. Selah
5 Let the peoples praise you, O God; let all the peoples praise you!
6 The earth has yielded its increase; God, our God, shall bless us.
7 God shall bless us; let all the ends of the earth fear him!

Today’s message in church was about our trip over the next six days and related back to psalm 67. As I look at a map now I see our destinations are all north of Phnom Penh, up the middle, (Preah Vihear), then east, to Stoeng Treng and Ratanakiri. At least for this week. The last two stops we will be celebrating Christmas with these churches.

If you are reading this, I’m presuming that you are a regular here and you have heard us previously go on about the disintegrating roads and a gridlock transportation situation in the city. Today after church we’ve left that behind for my favorite part of this country. The further away from the hubbub you get, the more rural and somewhat ‘old type western’ you can feel. It’s a rough terrain from which juts out communities sprinkled around the rice fields, golden or nearly so as it’s harvest time. I never tire of the breathtaking scenery, not withstanding the red dust fogging up our vision on non surfaced roads. I’ve never heard anyone embrace city life as it is here. It’s just for some necessary at this point. As with most big cities of this nature, they are hot, dirty, smelly, and trashy.Dry dusty roads

Yet to step outside all of those modern conveniences in the city gives us the opportunity to do what God has sent us here for, to meet the masses in the villages, to share Jesus with them, and to encourage and pray with and for them.

We first need to get there, which will take us almost eight hours. There are two cars with bibles and songbooks to hand out, and our bags of clothes for the week. Even with the AC running as we travel, the heat and rocking motion lures us all in and out of dozing time during the day for short spells.

Daily life continues as we bounce thru the settlements. Cattle grass is being hauled home as feed by a pair of water buffalo or white cows pulling a cart. People are hosing down the dirt on the road in front of their home or business. Children ride their bicycles to and fro, carts and motos are laden with cargo and families moving along, motos are repaired on the side of the road. In the distances cows and water buffalo graze as folks hand harvest their rice fields and lay the rice on bags in front of their homes to dry in the sun, along side the hanging fish and the cricket traps (that are used at night). Trucks move thru the communities carrying their cargo. Clothes dry on fences, poles, lines, or the ground. To me this is Cambodia and what has brought us back here.Water buffalo duo

 

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Today there were 25 present for church. While the locals sang in Khmer, we sang along with them with the same hymns tucked in our heads and sung for so many years. This church family has totally embraced our arrival far more than we could have ever imagined. While they are certainly not overbearing, they make sure we are safe and taken care of and have incorporated us into their lives to benefit the church family in so many ways.

Tomorrow we are going to a military base near the Thai border in Preah Vihear province. We are told the men will come dressed in their uniforms and will bring their families with them. This is a first time for this very occasion, that ELCC will have the opportunity to share the gospel message and the Christmas story and give them bibles to read all about our Jesus too. As I spoke with Dalis earlier, I shared with her how my heart was filled with so much excitement and humbleness because we were here in this time and place to witness the power of the Holy Spirit amongst these people. She graciously smiled and acknowledged my explanation to her. She too I hope will grow thru this experience to see what can happen. We all need to be there to see, hear, and feel. God is so good!
1-dry dusty roadsgas station restaurant rest stop for the locals
2-rice field
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4-rice stalk stacked high
5-sugar cane juice
6-gas station restaurant for the locals
7-George and church planter Daniel with serene pond behind looking into Laos
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George and Daniel December 8, 2015

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Behind the Scenes

We’ve now accumulated two English classes every day with a total of 10 students in various levels. It’s been very interesting to watch them work together to pull each other along and not leaving anyone behind. Two of our more advanced students have naturally stayed for the beginner class to learn how to ‘teach’ and to help the newbies. Amen! Today, because so many are on the way to Siem Reap to finish the land details for that church plant, our class was smaller. I also had spent the morning reviewing all my white board photos on my phone and writing a notebook of what’s IMG_4815been done thus far so that if anyone misses, they can see what they’ve missed and ask questions. (We’ve all learned to take photos of what’s on the board since it magically disappears).

Additionally our morning devotions have taken on a wonderful twist as that has brought out an easy English bible with two other regular versions and each day they can learn two or three words there too. Also they now want to take ownership of the devotion time with us and rotate amongst all of us so that they can learn how to do their share as well. So much of this is new to them, so in this new year we are so grateful that they all are now ready for some responsibility to grow spiritually and advance themselves with English and new business practices while we are here.

We see the beginning of a community here in the office.IMG_4820Today I had one humbling realization that one student has never been exposed to English except thru her interaction with us. She has dutifully sat in class with a determination that could perhaps move a mountain. Others have translated for her and she has taken notes. Also she just arrived on the scene, which tells me she had no clue the class was a choice. But her voice of praise in church does move mountains and she one day be seen as a powerful church leader. But I must admit here that she is not like the usual meek and mild Khmer we see every day. This girl has Jesus spirit that does not quit.

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Epiphany

Today is January 6th, Epiphany or Three Kings Day. It isn’t a holiday that is celebrated very much any more, but it is still an important day for us. Webster gives two definitions of epiphany. The first is a moment of sudden great and sudden revelation. The second is that revelation of the birth of Christ to the non-Jewish world as recorded in Matthew 2:1-12.

Now, we don’t know if there were really three wise men or magi as we often sing. And we also don’t know where their journey originated. We see them depicted in Nativity scenes or around the creche, but the truth is that since Herod ordered the killing of all the Jewish males under the age of two, they probably came a great distance. It could have been as close as Mesopotamia in the valley between the Tigress and Euphrates Rivers, an advanced civilization since 3000 BC. Or it might have been from India, or China, two great civilizations even farther east. For all we know, it could have also been a epiphany-1pre-Angkorian civilization here in Cambodia.

But, the bible does tell us that they came to worship THE King, bringing gifts of gold, frankincense and myrrh. This leads to speculation that they were wealthy and educated men who studied the stars and could finance an extended scientific search for the origin of that bright star. While magi is the origin of the word magician, we can again speculate that these men were able to show very uncommon knowledge. We can also speculate that the magi visiting Christ were only representative of a larger body of astronomers, a delegation if you will.

But what is Epiphany to us? Epiphany to us is not the day on which we stop celebrating Christmas. It may be the day that the Christmas tree comes down because the needles are brown and dropping, but it not the day that Christmas comes to an end. Epiphany is the revelation of Christ, true God, and true man, to the non-Jewish world. Epiphany is to us a day of thanksgiving for Christ finding us in all our shame and guilt. Epiphany is the start of a new life!

Have a Happy Epiphany! God is still searching for wise men and women who will accept Him into their life.

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Open a Door

A young but wise 5 year old a few weeks ago makes a statement that travels Facebook and now could be tagged as a ministry platform to ‘grow the church.’

“Why does Oma and Opa have to go half way around the world to share Jesus when all they had to do is open their front door?”

So, that being said, a question posed to us Saturday was “how do we grow the church here in Cambodia?” by a young pastor.

I remember a song by Christian singer Pony Baldwin who hails from the MI area and a church we attended during our VISA ministry days. The song was titled “Open a Door.” From that song comes “We’ll tell the world how great you are” sits in my brain. ~ “That we plea and pray to our Father for wisdom, to help us to know, to whom we should speak, and where we should. go.”

So this is what we said in the course of conversation to him. That it’s our prayer and our plea to open our hearts and let Him in and share that heart around and to show those who stand with us how to ‘open a door’ ~ heart ~ as well.

Proverbs 4:23/Matthew 15:18 says it all (but I had to find this afterward as I’m not a walking Bible yet.)

This also brings out a long plethora of emotions for both of us being half way around the world btw. Some days are like that.

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Meeting an Old Friend at the Door

We knew that Samuel was coming some time this week, but the day and time was not given to us. But this morning just after we got down the stairs into our office with the lights on and our computers firing up, the door opened and there he was, like he had not changed a bit in the 2.5 year siIMG_4061nce we last saw him. His eyes still sparkled with a defined happy smile glowing with it. I’m not so sure who was more excited at that point, whether it was him or me. He did the cordial handshake routine with George, but he shared the same warm hug that has so many times been expressed to one another, that special connection that we share as servants to our Father.

I met Samuel back in 2012 initially during a short term team encounter and then again a few more times thereafter before we returned to the US. During our first connection, he was serving at a church in Bos Pul outside of Siem Reap. He also had the commune of Snor, but that was not our first meet up. He was driving down the road in a very old tiny car and stopped to ask if I’d like to come to his church and meet the ‘ladies.’ I’m not one to hop in the car with strange persons, but he had been pointed out to me earlier in the day so I knew who he was. When we arrived at the church I distinctly recall that I had to walk on a tiny tree across the creek to the church on the other side, no handles to grab on to. While that was a bit scary (and I could have been majorly embarrassed), everything and everyone moved slowly and smoothly during that transition (and I got a lot of help and a clapping of hands from the girls.)

IMG_0131_2Fast forward to our time in Snor months later when we brought a team from Trinity Lutheran Church in Memphis to share time with the community for a week. Now that is another story already out there but in the archive compartment of this computer as I write this, and for another time of retelling that magnificent week. But you’d need to ask if you haven’t read it.                                                                                                                                

Samuel is going to be a daddy again. Obed (changed from Boaz) was not quite born when the Memphis team was in Snor in 2012, but now Obed is going to have a baby brother next March. Sophena is doing quite well in this pregnancy. She had been doing some special handbag sewing for the tourists in Siem Reap while Samuel continued to drive a tuk tuk. He said that the combined efforts over these months have provided a stable income for them to purchase food, pay the rent, and buy what they needed to have to live day to day. He is in the midst of selling his current tuk tuk and plans to buy another to continue this service in the near future.

Samuel was very willing to share the current state of the church in Snor, adding with a huge smile, that the community in itself continues to grow and so does the church family. The exciting news in the middle of all this conversation though is the fact that Samuel will be ordained as a ‘real’ pastor next March. How exciting is that!

Snor village is growing to be a very mission minded church, slow and not so much, but it’s there. Samuel indicated that this year the church body was able to donate $100 over the year just so they could sponsor their elementary school principal by 50% to take some computer classes so that the children could be taught this skill. The principal is a Christian as well.

There is still no electricity in the school, which in itself will cost $300, plus there are no computers yet, but the first thing to accomplish is to be sure the principal gets the training. George showed Samuel some computer choices that he knew about that were very inexpensive and could probably be adapted out of what is here in Cambodia. Samuel indicated that about five computers would be an asset to the children at school in the near future ~ about the same time as there is electricity installed. For those of you reading this and not knowing the layout of the village, the only road into the village is a lane next to a deep channel. During the rainy season it is not easy to navigate. It’s now the end of the rainy season and the ruts of the rainy season didn’t go away yet. He says you still bounce down the lane. How well we remember that adventure in itself.

Additionally, Samuel has been involved with the DLM (Danish Lutheran Missions) to promote the gospel and share for the benefit for the children in the area. From that has come around something called Countryside Harvest Mission, which is made up of four interdenominational men who work together to bring the gospel to two communities about 60km thru meeting up with the people and the children in discussions, teaching, and prayer. This is new.

Currently he said that about 80 children are regularly coming to Sunday School in Snor on Sunday where Sophena teaches them about Jesus. Each night of the week, Monday thru Friday, there are now late day bible studies in session in homes around the villIMG_4060age. On Mondays he also has further involvement with certain adults during both the morning and afternoon time. Church has about 28 adults in each bible class scattered around.

Not much has changed in the daily school situation. Grades 1-4 remain in the three room school building at this time. Seven km toward town is a larger school for grades 5-12 at this time. The young adults still go to Thailand for work as before, leaving the children with elder community members to be raised. There the village is raising many of the children.

Going into 2016 the vision and the focus of ministry of the church is into the community fellowshipping and sharing the gospel. It was great to hear that this tiny congregation is already sharing their merger income and tithing to the church. There is no elder or leadership board with the church as yet, but he felt that may not be far off in the future. There are persons in training at this time to step up later on.

This is another absolutely perfect example how a single man, so dedicated and committed to sharing the gospel in the community, has held steadfast and patiently made inroads into the community in the bigger sense. He still dreams of an English teacher ‘to teach my children.’ When we first met, he asked me if I would consider doing that with him in Snor. I’m sure he understands that we are committed to the church in the bigger picture, but then again, as we are seeing time and time again. God provides thru His people for their needs. I wouldn’t be too surprised that some day that may just happen in the near future. Let’s all stay tuned, shall we.


Yup, it was a good day to see Pastor Samuel here in Phnom Penh. We really want to pop back to Snor now to see everyone there. Maybe next year.

As usual, I’m holding the camera ~

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